I often will suggest videos or books to clients as a way to supplement or compliment our counselling work.  Here is a list of the resources I most frequently recommend (click item to follow link. I do not use affiliate links):

Videos

• Brene Brown: The Power of Vulnerability (TED Talk) 
• Brene Brown: Listening to Shame (TED Talk)
• Brene Brown: The Anatomy of Trust (Super Soul Sessions)
• Esther Perel: Rethinking Infidelity (TED Talk)
• Esther Perel: The Secret to Desire in a Long Term Relationship (TED Talk)
• Susan David: The Gift and Power of Emotional Courage (TED Talk)

Books

Romantic Relationships

• The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work (John Gottman and Nan Silver)
• Mating in Captivity (Esther Perel) 
• The Five Love Languages (Gary Chapman)

Affair Recovery

• Healing from Infidelity: The Divorce Busting Guide To Rebuilding your Marriage After an Affair (by Michele Weiner-Davis)
• The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity (by Esther Perel)
• After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding trust when a partner has been unfaithful (by Janis A. Spring)

Self Esteem/ Self Compassion

• Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself (by Kristin Neff)
• The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You're Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are (by Brene Brown)
• Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead (by Brene Brown) 
• Rising Strong: How the Ability to Reset Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead (by Brene Brown)

Postpartum Depression

• This Isn't What I Expected: Overcoming Postpartum Depression (by Karen R. Kleiman and Valerie Davis Raskin)

Parenting

• The Whole-Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind (by Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson)
• No-Drama Discipline: The Whole-Brain Way to Calm the Chaos and Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind (by Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson)
• Anxious Kids, Anxious Parents: 7 Ways to Stop the Worry Cycle and Raise Courageous and Independent Children (by Reid Wilson and Lynn Lyons)
• Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child (by John Gottman and Daniel Goleman)

Web Resources

• VIA Character Strengths Survey
• Setting Personal Boundaries Blog Post
• Self-Compassion Guided Imagery Exercises
• Discover your Love Language Quiz

Apps

• Gottman Card Decks App (free)
• Mind Shift App (free)
• Insight Timer (free)